Bab 1: Keseimbangan yang Hilang Aisha, seorang arsitek muda berbakat di Bandar Lampung, hidup dalam dunia yang terstruktur dan terukur. Kehidupannya adalah perpaduan sempurna antara pekerjaan, desain yang rumit, dan kesempurnaan yang ia tuntut dari dirinya sendiri. Namun, di balik kesempurnaan itu tersimpan kekosongan. Ia merasa hidupnya seperti bangunan tanpa pondasi yang kokoh, selalu mengancam untuk runtuh. Hubungannya dengan kekasihnya, Dimas, seorang dokter yang selalu sibuk, semakin renggang. Keseimbangan dalam hidupnya hilang. Di tengah kesibukannya, Aisha bertemu dengan seorang seniman keramik, Bayu. Bayu adalah kebalikan dari Aisha. Ia hidup sederhana, penuh warna, dan percaya pada aliran kehidupan yang alami. Karya-karyanya, vas-vas keramik yang unik dan penuh ekspresi, mencerminkan jiwa seninya yang bebas. Pertemuan mereka terjadi di sebuah pameran seni lokal, dan sejak saat itu, hidup Aish...
Nowadays, more and more people are coming out revealing their true identity, thanks to the efforts of LGBT activists. According to the latest survey, at least 43% of young people who are between 18 to...
Nowadays, more and more people are coming out revealing their true identity, thanks to the efforts of LGBT activists. According to the latest survey, at least 43% of young people who are between 18 to 24-year-old are not identified as straight nor gay. Another research also claimed that women are not considered as heterosexual but they can either be gay or bisexual.
Regardless, some women revealed that they are not comfortable with dating bisexual couples or man who identified themselves as bisexual. Most women are now asking “Would you date a bisexual guy?” One of the well-known celebrities, Amber Rose revealed that she would never date a bisexual man. She said, “Personally—no judgment—I wouldn’t be comfortable. I just wouldn’t be comfortable with it and I don’t know why.” Based on the survey conducted by Glamour magazine, at least two-thirds of women are not comfortable with dating a man who had sex with another man.
Bisexual men who finally came out will feel relief after several years of struggle about their sexual orientation. They thought that everything is finally coming into place and that they can date anyone in every gender. They feel excited about their future, most especially about the prospect of dating. But most often they are just naïve, most especially those bisexual men who only met a few of their kind. They are not aware that some straight women and gay men have some misconceptions about them.
For instance, they thought that coming out as a bisexual is only used as an excuse for being a full-blown gay. Some also accused bisexual men of being greedy sex addicts. Some even thought that they are just equally the same as other men and women. Some even proclaimed that they can never be monogamous and faithful. They are even accused of spreading HIV to women.
If you are one of those women who are open to dating bisexual men, then you should think twice before having sex with bisexual men. Having sex with a bisexual man is not advisable most especially during your first date. It’s because of the increase of Sexually Transmitted Diseases (STDs) being experienced by both gay and bisexual men. One great example is syphilis which can be seen all over the country. In fact, in 2014, at least 83% of gay, bisexual, and men who had sex with other men are suffering from syphilis. Aside from this, they are often diagnosed with other STDs such as chlamydia and gonorrhea infections.
In the United States, one of the most common types of STD experienced by gay, bisexual, and men who are having sex with other men is HPV (Human papillomavirus). Some types of HPV can be fatal and can lead to genital and anal warts. The worst thing is there are chances that it can result in anal and oral cancers. Gay, bisexual, and men who are having sex with other men are more likely to get infected with anal cancer than men who are heterosexual. Likewise, men who are HIV-positive are more prone to getting infected with anal cancer than those who are not HIV-positive.
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